There is a difference between Pocket PCs and Smartphone versions of Windows Mobile. Pocket PCs go to sleep whereas Smartphones like the Q do not. So Flexmail should give you push email on a smartphone but not on a Pocket PC. Because on a Pocket PC the imap idle connection will go down as soon as the device goes to sleep.
I use interways.net for direct push of email, contacts, calendars, files, ... Works very well, is only $ 4.15 a month. You can get or use your own domain, share calendars, and everything. Sharing works great for my family, we can use a common calendar for all of us. Thom :dft009:smile