Bad situation gone terrible.

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  1. inf3st

    inf3st New Member

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    Bad situation gone terrible.

    Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.

    I'll keep this short and sweet but desperately need help.

    So I've been dating a girl for a while. She has a 12 yearold daughter. Me and the girlfriend decided together that a mutual breakup was in order. We decided to wait until tonight to tell her daughter(so she could have the weekend to deal with it). Well we sat her down tonight to tell her. We tell her. well 2 hours after telling her. I finally leave and get 2 my parents house. and then find out that she thought we were sitting her down to tell her we were getting married. yup i feel terrible and needed to vent. sorry.
  2. MattB

    MattB New Member

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    Man that sucks. Sorry to hear.
  3. scottjb

    scottjb New Member

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    That does suck. Hang in there.
  4. bpaul24

    bpaul24 New Member

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    Kids are tough I am sure she will be okay. Give us an update!
  5. rudeboy

    rudeboy New Member

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    major bummer dude.. kids are strong as mentioned, hope you are also, good luck!
  6. nancychiri

    nancychiri New Member

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    Yes - kids are very resilient and they will eventually get over it (with a lot of help and love from their mom). On the other hand...are YOU going to get over it??
  7. inf3st

    inf3st New Member

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    I'll feel better when they do :p
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    ZATZAi New Member

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    How long were you two together?
  9. inf3st

    inf3st New Member

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    A year. Not long but long enuf for everyone to get attached. I took the 2 of them out for dinner today. So that Mom and I could show the little one that things are ok.
  10. rudeboy

    rudeboy New Member

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    cool to hear both of you are willing to put effort in what's good for the little ones..

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